Oh god. In a whole different way. This apparently is actually easy mode, and it's still far out of Neil's difficulty level. How is Neil going to deal with--

Arcade places a hand to his chin in thought. "Digression and blatancy, Neil," he reminds. Just get all the details for now.

Thus does the Nice Friend thing while Neil hopefully recovers. And continues the conversation. "On each other, you have the obvious pluses of affecting the other person. But on yourself you get to see how much you actually affect the other person, and not just when you have their genitals in your hand."

Or. Otherwhere, in Neil's case. Ugh.