He could try. Likely botch the deed in the process. Or Alex, the topper extraordinaire, would offer enough critique to turn Neil off to it for a fucking long time.

Arcade, bless his soul, edges into a territory Neil's looking for, and the younger man sets aside his thoughts to instantly jumps on the opportunity. "Not looking for a different partner, but... Could you gimme an example of non-penetrative stuff?" he asks.